Ancestral Healing involves healing your ancestors’ unresolved emotional issues, problems or trauma. In so doing, it releases you from any energetic patterns that link you to them – patterns that can have an inhibiting or disruptive influence on your life today.
This healing process is important because we are impacted by emotional and energetic patterns from prior generations in our family. Some of these can create obstacles in our lives, blocking our pathway to joy, abundance, authentic power and unlimited possibilities.
Since energy is never lost, but simply changes form over time, emotional issues or problems that were not dealt with by your ancestors, or not fully resolved, can ‘hover’ in your energy field today, creating an imbalance or roadblock – also known as a healing opportunity.
Ancestral Healing can transform energetic patterns that are not in your highest good, or are preventing you from carrying out your soul’s mission and life’s purpose. If you are experiencing recurring patterns where things get in the way of feeling satisfied, enriched or successful, then ancestral healing may be the missing link that can free you to attain personal fulfillment.
Revering our ancestors
Most indigenous cultures believe that their ancestors are a vital force in their lives. This is especially true among Native Americans and the Aborigines. For example, the Navajo honor the perspective of seven generations of their ancestral lineage when making a significant decision that affects their family or community. Even though the ancestor’s body is no longer alive, that person’s soul is thought to be very much alive.
Ancestral Healing is based on the belief that what happened in your family, before your current life, is present or alive in your energy field today. Accordingly, any unresolved conflict your ancestors had – including unhealed emotional wounds, damaging judgments and other limitations – may be in your energetic grid, since this is part of the larger energy pattern of your entire family.
Ancestral Healing allows us to make peace with the members of our family, going back many generations. From Lily’s experience, ancestral healing usually starts in the 3rd generation, or two generations before your current life – at the grandparent level.
Occasionally healings involve 10 or 15 generations of family members, dating back hundreds, if not thousands of years.
How the process works
If you are feeling held back, stymied or blocked in some way, and usual methods for clearing or opening up the congestion have not worked, Lily will check to see if any one of your ancestors is ‘calling out’ for help. If she gets a confirmation of this, Lily will ask you to call in your Higher Self along with the Higher Selves of your ancestors who wish to be healed. Having the intention to co-create this healing experience is key to its success.
Since energy is not constrained by time or space, it is possible to connect with the Higher Selves of ancestors who have crossed over, even if they have since returned to this side, or reincarnated.
One by one, the Higher Selves of your ancestors will come through, during which Lily serves as the conduit for the flow of information from them to you. Sometimes she will simply convey what your ancestor is saying or feeling; other times she will allow your ancestor’s Higher Self to use her body to speak to you directly, also known as full body channeling.
Lily gets an immediate feel for each ancestor. This usually includes their first name, approximate geographic location of the lifetime being spotlighted and how many generations back they date from. Most importantly, you will get a firsthand account of the main problem or feeling your ancestor is still harboring which needs to be healed, or any emotional issue or unresolved conflict that your ancestor is dealing with on the higher planes.
Once you and Lily have a sense of your ancestor’s key problem or unresolved issue, Lily will guide you through a simple yet powerful process where love, compassion, gratitude and forgiveness are mutually expressed and received – from you to your ancestor, and from your ancestor to you. This insures a complete release, opening up, clearing and freeing both of you. If your ancestor had an emotional issue, such as a tragedy or traumatic experience that is energetically affecting you today, then the forgiveness exchange will effectively clear this up, liberating both of you.
When the exchange is complete – with full reciprocity between you, involving a sense of mutual understanding and forgiveness – Lily will facilitate a severing of any energetic cords or connections between you and your ancestor. The severing of cords is done if and only if these connections are not in your highest good or are preventing you from moving forward on your path and carrying out your soul’s mission or life’s purpose. The severed energetic connections are then transmuted into gold and white light, a very high vibrational frequency of cleansing, purification and healing.
Healing = Freedom
By connecting with your ancestors in this profound way – expressing love, compassion and gratitude, and forgiving them for whatever they may have done, thought, said, felt or experienced that needs to be healed – you can release and free both them and yourself. In so doing, you can break any energetic cords or patterns that are no longer serving you, and turn your life around in a most positive way.
A typical session lasts 1-2 hours, with an associated fee of $300 – $600.